Many of us keep journals which record our days’ events and innermost thoughts. Some of us inherit these historical volumes from a loved one who has passed away. The question inevitably arises what to do with them. Will anyone be interested or care? What level of privacy do we seek? Might the records be of value to an archive?
There is no right answer, and there is seldom an easy answer. But, if you’re faced with a large set of personal journals, here are the options to consider:
1. Leave the journals for those who will inherit your estate
You’re passing the buck, but that’s fine. Consider leaving a note with the journal dates, and your wish for their disposition, including the freedom to dispose of them at any time.
2. Contribute the journals to an archive such as a library or college museum
If you’re someone of note or have corresponded with someone of note, you may be able to contribute your journals to an archive. Similarly, if you’ve described a period or event of consequence such as a world war or social movement, this option may be a good one. In either event, it will take a little research to find an interested party.
3. Adapt the journals into a memoir or summary of your life’s highlights for your loved ones
Some of us inherit family papers which we’re happy to have though we seldom create time to read them. Therefore, at a minimum, if you bequeath your journals to a descendent or friend, consider also writing a summary of your life which is more digestible.
4. Destroy them
Burn your journals? Many arrange a bonfire or use a shredder to spiritually release their written past and embrace the present and future. It takes courage and resolve to let go of these written memories. Many are not ready for this, but some are.
5. Do nothing
Most of us will choose this option even though we know we are burdening someone else with the decision-making.
Of course, some of the above options can be done in combination.
You are not alone if you are unsure how to proceed with your journals. Many of us face this decision. If this describes you, feel free to reach out to me for an empathetic, free consultation.